Being used for ??

I lost my virginity to my ex-boyfriend about 2 months ago.(He's 19 and i'm 17) My parents and my sister think that I am still a virgin and that I will wait till I get married! Wat the hell! What if i never do get married you know? So i figure i was ready and my ex-boyfriend wanted to f- uck me so bad because i was a virgin and nice and tight. Plus i wanted to lose it already. Looking back now i wish i never would have lost my virginty to him because he just used me and lied to me:( ANYWAYS...now you know the background of it all..my question is...DO you think i did the right thing? At least i got the whole thing out of the way by losing it all? right?